How to Stop Worrying and Start Living
by Carnegie, Dale ¡ 301 highlights
âFear causes worry. Worry makes you tense and nervous and affects the nerves of your stomach and actually changes the gastric juices of your stomach from normal to abnormal and often leads to stomach ulcers.â
âYou do not get stomach ulcers from what you eat. You get ulcers from what is eating you.â
Plato said that âthe greatest mistake physicians make is that they attempt to cure the body without attempting to cure the mind; yet the mind and body are one and should not be treated separately!â
Another illuminating book about worry is lion Against Himself, by Dr. Karl Menninger, one of the âMayo brothers of psychiatry.â Dr. Menningerâs book is a startling revelation of what you do to yourself when you permit destructive emotions to dominate your life. If you want to stop working against yourself, get this book. Read it. Give it to your friends. It costs four dollarsâand is one of the best investments you can make in this life. Worry can make even the most stolid person ill.
retreats into a private dream world of his own making, and this solves his worry problems. As I write I have on my desk a book by Dr. Edward Podolsky entitled Stop Worrying and Get Well. Here are some of the chapter titles in that book: What Worry Does To The Heart
High Blood Pressure Is Fed By Worry
Rheumatism Can Be Caused By Worry
Worry Less For Your Stomachâs Sake
How Worry Can Cause A Cold
Worry And The Thyroid
The Worrying Diabetic Another
Another illuminating book about worry is lion Against Himself, by Dr. Karl Menninger, one of the âMayo brothers of psychiatry.â Dr. Menningerâs book is a startling revelation of what you do to yourself when you permit destructive emotions to dominate your life. If you want to stop working against yourself, get this book. Read it. Give it to your friends. It costs four dollarsâand is one of the best investments you can make in this life.
learn to sleep wellâ
Love good musicâsee the funny side of lifeâ
And health and happiness will be yours.
Dr. Alexis Carrel said: âBusinessmen who do not know how to fight worry die young.â
Worry is like the constant drip, drip, drip of water; and the constant drip, drip, drip of worry often drives men to insanity and suicide.
face the facts! Quit worrying
face the facts! Quit worrying ! And then do something about it!
âI am not going to worry! I am not going to cry! And if there is anything to mind over matter, I am going to win!
âI am not so foolish as to imagine that merely smiling can cure cancer. But I do believe that a cheerful mental attitude helps the body fight disease.
Businessmen who do not know how to fight worry die young.â
Part One in a Nutshell Fundamental Facts You Should Know About Warry RULE 1: If you want to avoid worry, do what Sir William Osier did: Live in âday-tight compartmentsâ. Donât stew about the future. Just live each day until bedtime. RULE 2: The next time Troubleâwith a capital T-comes gunning for you and backs you up in a corner, try the magic formula of Willis H. Carrier: Ask yourself, âWhat is the worst that can possibly happen if I canât solve my problem?â Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst if necessary. Then calmly try to improve upon the worstâwhich you have already mentally agreed to accept. RULE 3: Remind yourself of the exorbitant price you can pay for worry in terms of your health. âBusinessmen who do not know how to fight worry die young.â
the three basic steps of problem analysis. The three steps are: Get the facts. Analyse the facts. Arrive at a decision and then act on that decision.
Why is it so important to get the facts? Because unless we have the facts we canât possibly even attempt to solve our problem intelligently.
âconfusion is the chief cause of worryâ.
âHalf the worry in the world is caused by people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision.
We have to keep our emotions out of our thinking;