Happy: Finding joy in every day and letting go of perfect
by Cotton, Fearne Ā· 141 highlights
focusing on the positives, and learning to accept the parts of life you canāt change, is the road that will lead you to a happier life.
Iāve been able to see that the things that really make me happy are so simple, yet sometimes we tend to overlook them. Iām just grateful to wake up in the morning and be healthy, surrounded by my friends and family, have a roof over my head, food on my table and clothes on my back.
We will always experience negative people and situations, but the key is to be able to see what can be learnt from them and to be aware and brave enough to remove what is causing the negativity from your life.
Give yourself a chance to make the choice about how to react to a situation.
Make the choice to see the positive rather than the negative in situations.
When we use our minds in a positive way we can dream, act and create with ease.
We have to be able to adapt to what is taking shape around us.
Make a change. Stop looking at something that makes you feel bad.
Donāt let your mindās worry and fear take over.
Breathe fully, and breathe deeply. Inhaling peace, and exhaling tension.
Whatever your creative outlet is, do it often, do it with joy and feel the bliss.
having the awareness that you know you feel a little freaked out is a great start. Then you can take some deep breaths and get back to knowing that youāll be okay if you slow that heart rate down and act from a place of calm.
Never be afraid to ask for help.
thereās so much pressure on us all to be everything. We donāt give ourselves a break and we leave no room for mistakes.
I need to look back and accept that I am not a perfect human being who always thinks positively and acts from a happy place and thatās okay.
We can adapt and change our habits and thought processes, whenever we want to
After a while, grabbing hold of the plusses in life doesnāt feel like such an effort, and you seem to seek them out more frequently and with ease.
So get your mind in good shape, remember itās a daily exercise, and let your own feel-good magic spread as far as it can.
TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR MIND. Youāre in control of it. Donāt let your habits or fears run the show.
REST YOUR MIND. Give it space to breathe and find creative outlets to help slow down the cogs.