Limitless
by Kwik, Jim ¡ 376 highlights
what do we do instead of taking the responsibility to teach ourselves what we want or need to know? We tell ourselves it isnât necessary, we make excuses, we blame other people or circumstances, and then we distract ourselves with things that make us feel good.
the reason we prefer to believe that weâre either a genius or weâre not, or that weâre either talented or not, is because it relieves us from the responsibility of taking control of our own life.
Thinking of talent as innate makes our world more manageable, more comfortable. It relieves a person of the burden of expectation.â
try saying something like âThis is something Iâm not good at yet.â This shift in language can be applied to anything you want to improve.
âA person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.â
Too many of us donât come close to our capacities because we are too afraid of making a mistake.
Too many of us donât come close to our capacities because we are too afraid of making a mistake. Instead of looking at mistakes as proof of failure, take them as proof that you are trying.
Too many of us donât come close to our capacities because we are too afraid of making a mistake. Instead
Mistakes donât mean failure. Mistakes are a sign that you are trying something new.
life is not about comparing yourself to anyone else; itâs about measuring yourself compared to who you were yesterday.
you make mistakes; mistakes donât make you.
knowledge is important, but it is âthe performing of some actionâ that is required to make it powerful.
possession of knowledge wasnât going to differentiate me from the people around meâit was how I used my knowledge that would.
Knowledge is not power. It only has the potential to be power. You can read this book and learn everything in it, but if you donât take it and apply the knowledge, it will be useless.
Knowledge Ă Action = Power
Itâs easy to talk about what we learn, but I want to challenge you not to talk about it, but to show what you learned.
learning wonât always be easy, but the effort pays dividends.
learning should be at least a little uncomfortable; otherwise youâre mostly reinforcing what you already know.
The key is taking small, simple steps. Think about a stonecutter. The stonecutter may sit there and hammer away at his block of stone for what feels like an eternity, making only small chips and dents here and there. But in one moment, the stone will crack open. Was it the one time that did it? Noâit was all the sustained effort that prepared the stone to split.
It will require you to cultivate patience,