It Will All Work Out: The Freedom of Letting Go
by Hart, Kevin · 33 highlights
I was setting them up to fail, whether it was putting them in a situation they didn’t yet have the experience to handle or not giving them the training and access they needed to succeed or holding them to impossible standards because no one is perfect all the time. So, at the time, it looked like it was their fault. It looked like they were the problem, not me. They let me down. When the truth was that I was to blame.
I stopped giving people energy or engaging with them, because I felt their level of go-getting was low. The thing is, most of the time it wasn’t really low at all. They just didn’t go about things the way I did.
I stopped giving people energy or engaging with them, because I felt their level of go-getting was low. The thing is, most of the time it wasn’t really low at all. They just didn’t go about things the way I did. But I assumed that if their way wasn’t like mine, well, that couldn’t be correct.
I stopped giving people energy or engaging with them, because I felt their level of go-getting was low. The thing is, most of the time it wasn’t really low at all. They just didn’t go about things the way I did. But I assumed that if their way wasn’t like mine, well, that couldn’t be correct. And if their way was like mine, then I could do it better and they were unnecessary.
This monster doesn’t allow you to empower others because it’s too busy trying to control them.
You have to start caring about the project more than yourself and making your costars look good, even at the expense of you looking good.
I’m getting updated, instead of constantly doing the updating.
By taking a chance on losing, you also get the opportunity to win.
You may need to admit that there are some things you don’t know. Because you can’t make it to the top of a mountain when you’re trying to carry fifteen other people’s backpacks.
You’re no longer living in fear. You’ve got a free mind, with clearer vision. And instead of fighting with the universe all the time, you can finally trust it to work with you to help find your way.
Letting go frees up so much energy and thought power. It will create space in your life, space that you need to grow into who you can be.
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